What can a Christian wife do about her husband’s secret sin?
That’s a question that leaves many women paralyzed. When a wife first discovers that her husband is involved in pornography, a sense of overwhelming hopelessness tends to be the first response. But when a marriage is assaulted by one consequential problem after another, the shock wears off and the need to “do” something kicks in.
People don’t generally have questions about a topic, until they have a need to know. So if you’re not directly affected by this topic, please continue reading anyway. Over 50% of Christian men are hooked on pornography, so chances are, you will meet somebody who has a need to know.
I wasn’t aware of my husband’s involvement with pornography until undercover cops showed up at my door with a search warrant. They took pictures of my home, confiscated the computer, and told me my husband was on his way to a jail several hundred miles away. To say I was “blown away” is a huge understatement.
There were many painful consequences but my first concern was that my husband was not a true believer and was well on his way to hell. As much as that concerned me, I was also grappling with how to feed my kids because my husband’s arrest caused his termination at work. These were serious issues from the onset and the consequences are still being felt today, nearly a decade later.
But my marriage survived and I’m on a mission to help other Christian wives overcome the devastating effects of pornography.
Author Cindy Rushton interviewed me for over an hour to get answers for the hurting Christian wife who doesn’t know what to do about her husband’s involvement with pornography.
Listed below are just a few of her questions.
What is the one thing that really helped you to breakthrough and begin healing?
God is not silent on the topic of pornography and wives
should not equate submission with tolerance.
You need to take action. The devil has been satisfied with shoving women into “denial” or “shameful silence” and it’s past time we start taking up our role as soldiers of the cross.
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