Just published on Amazon’s Kindle platform, Calm The Chaos Within: A Guide For Christian Wives Whose Husbands Are Hooked on Porn, is now available.
From the description:
Statistics claim that 90% of Christian men have relational problems because they view pornography, lust, and fantasize. It’s estimated that over 50% of Christian men are addicted to pornography.
It’s nearly impossible to determine just how many Christian wives are affected by their husband’s sexual sin.
Nothing is more devastating to a wife than discovering her husband’s pornography obsession. A wife is afflicted with thoughts of her husband committing adultery numerous times over. Even if there is no physical sexual infidelity, the emotional infidelity is no less painful. The sense of rejection is overwhelming and creates a barrage of emotions that can cripple an otherwise healthy woman. A wife can be tormented with anguish that inhibits her ability to function as a wife, mother, employee, etc.
Shame enters the scene to cause isolation and lead a woman to feel she is alone and unable to move beyond her seemingly hopeless situation. Many women suffer in silence to avoid further pain and humiliation, only to experience deteriorating mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health.
Jenny Wilson shares lessons learned from her first-hand experience of suffering through the angst, sorrow and dreadful consequences of her husband’s sin. With candid honesty, she reaches out to help other women understand how deceit, pride and selfishness work together to make the situation so challenging.
This practical guide provides biblical answers to help Christian wives get a grip on their emotions and learn how to think biblically to make wise decisions about their marriage and life. Jenny encourages women to face their situation head-on without fear, disgrace or self-consciousness.
Her application of sound doctrine exposes a clear-cut explanation of the underlying issues that entice a man to pursue pornography, and explains how it can so effectively trap him in the bondage of sexual sin. She gives examples of how similar patterns in a woman’s heart can lead to unrelenting worry, anxiety and anger.
There’s only one solution and Jenny clarifies it, and how it facilitates hope, healing, repentance and restoration.
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