Restoring Hope | Healing Relationships | Rebuilding Lives
I am passionately devoted to guiding broken-hearted victims of betrayal to true and lasting forgiveness and meaningful reconciliation and overcome negative spiritual and emotional effects, so they can walk in truth and go beyond coping to victorious living.
My path to become a grace-driven, Christian mentor became clear the moment I heard of another woman hiding in shame after her husband’s secret sin was publicly exposed. At that time, I didn’t know what I could possibly say because I was in the same painful situation, but I knew God would safely deliver me and empower me with a message to help others.
I’m intimately aware of the pain of rejection, isolation, shame, anger, and loneliness caused by betrayal. My distress led me to hundreds of hours of Bible study that prepared me to create highly-effective programs based on biblical principles.
What energizes me in this work is knowing that through the difficult process of growing in knowledge and wisdom, I’ve been equipped to gently lead others to seek a closer walk with Jesus Christ and gain their own spiritual understanding of suffering, grace and healing. I’m privileged to be an ambassador for Christ and implore others to be reconciled with God.
What sets me apart from others is my first-hand experience of conquering emotional turmoil specifically caused by emotional infidelity. There are biblical counselors who know the word of God, but have no idea what inner struggles you face day-by-day. Some people lack the compassion you desperately need simply because they have not walked the path you are on.
I know there are secular “psychologists” who encourage women to make excuses and justify their sense of being victims who are trapped in self-absorbed pity forever, but there’s no true healing in that. I help betrayed women find biblical answers in the fullness of grace and truth. Christ is the only cure for the anguish women experience after infidelity.
I’ve been married since 1989. I’m enjoying the success of a reconciled and committed relationship that has grown stronger and more intimate every day. I’m raising two wonderful children for the Lord, establishing them in the faith, and taking pleasure in witnessing the fruits of their servant hearts.
Sharing Jesus Christ and the testimony of His work in my life is what gives my life meaningful purpose.
As a result of hearing my story, others have learned:
• I speak with compassion, direct and truthful candor to help identify wrong-thinking patterns, improper attitudes, unfitting behaviors and communication stumbling blocks that stand in the way of emotional wellness.
• I thrive in the role of trusted mentor because I suffered first-hand and understand others’ pain as well as their obstacles, and especially because I want others to discover and embrace the loving grace and glory of Jesus Christ.
• My listening and observation skills give me the ability to build trust and create a safe environment where people can speak their minds and know their privacy is safe.
• Women know they’ll get honest feedback they wouldn’t get elsewhere. My direct communication style is exactly what they need to make life-altering changes to catapult their lives out of depression and despair into joy and gratitude.
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I use the handle of Mrs. Fidelity because there is nothing in me to boast about. My story is really about God’s faithful work in the life of one person who continues striving to walk worthy of Him in obedience to His Word. I don’t want anyone to rely on me. I just want to lead others to THE source of all healing, Who has a true solution for every problem.
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